The Pain of Changed Behavior: A Reflection

There’s a woman in this video I wish I could go back and hug. October 2025. The movers were packing and carrying boxes out of my marital home while I was packing orders for my customers in between. My children were at school. My phone would not stop ringing. The internet was tearing me apart in real time. I was in the thick of trending. Bafazi, I had just 24 hours to find a new place , pay a deposit and two months’ rent upfront in the North of Johannesburg, find and pay a moving company and stor